In this busy world, we often get lost in the fast pace and anxiously chase the pace of others.
After graduating and entering society, I realized that my previous life was really easy and comfortable. Now the troubles that adults encounter will eventually fall in front of me one by one and wait for me to solve them.
For example, is it so difficult to find a satisfactory job? At work, we must not only solve work tasks more perfectly but also learn to deal with complex interpersonal relationships.
In life, the gap between them and their peers gradually widens. Some people find good jobs that they strive for, and some people happily submit their answers to get married.
On the other hand, the 25-year-old me seems to be still the same⌛️, acting with a youthful spirit, and childishness mixed with maturity and stability that I am not yet familiar with. I really look like "a little girl wearing mom's high heels.🎀"
When I was a child, I thought that in my twenties, I would have a better life, show a more relaxed and confident attitude, and be able to handle all kinds of things in an orderly and appropriate manner. I thought that when I was in my twenties, I would wear exquisite makeup like the peers I saw online, and go see the mountains and seas with the people I liked.
But the reality is that I don’t dare to set out and live hard in a different environment. I just want to escape from complicated and annoying interpersonal relationships. I'm still used to wearing no makeup, but I'm used to living alone, and I'm even more upset when faced with other people's "urge to get married"~
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Forget it🍃✨~
Everyone in the world has their own time zone. People have different life rhythms. Some people make noodles in 3 minutes, while others make soup in 3 hours~
Since I have chosen the way I want, I must stick to it and stop thinking about it~
Everyone's flowering period is different🌸✨, so don't be too anxious. Someone has written the answer and handed it in earlier than me~
I should learn to sense the "direction of my heart" in my own time zone. I'm not late or leaving early, I'm just slower and hesitant in the process🚶♀️~
💟The world is good, but I’m not bad either💫~
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I like the idea that we are in our own time zones. It's a great way to look at life!
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Yes, look at the life from a different angle and take your time, it will be fine~
DeleteWhat a great read! At almost 57 I still feel like I'm a little girl in my mum's shoes and have no urge at all to get married or to start being sensible. Life's all about marching to the beat of your own drum! xxx
ReplyDeleteYes, age is just an increase in number, representing the time scale we spend in this world; but in fact, for us, we are still the original selves when we act and speak, we just have a few more identities in the eyes of others, such as "adults" "Mom", "Independent woman in the workplace", etc...
DeleteI really enjoy the concept of each of us having our own time zones. I believe that it adds a special touch to things.
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Yes life is never quite what we are expecting. It is much harder then you think it will be as a kid. I am ALL about my alone time or my time zone, yes indeed!
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I love this! Sometimes I feel so lost and don't know what I'm doing with my life. I'm 25 years old and as a child/teenager, I always thought I'd have everything long figured out by now. Joke's on little me I guess :D I love the concept of every person having their own time zone.
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Embrace your youthful spirit and allow yourself the space to grow and evolve at your own pace. Remember, it's okay to be still figuring things out – what matters most is that you're staying true to yourself and following your own path, even if it looks different from others'.
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